Games Are The Solution, Not the Problem

Posted By: Melissa - July 08, 2015

“Video games ruined my last relationship.” Working for a gamer dating site, gaming guilt comes up all the time.  It breaks my heart to hear the repeated stories of normal relationship challenges being misconstrued as the inevitable fault of video games when it is the games that can help us through those tough situations.  To date a gamer is the same as dating anyone who has a passion for something and there are even a few

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The Witcher 3 Patch 1.07 coming soon!

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - July 07, 2015

The Witcher 3 have released information on the next big patch. Patch 1.07 is bringing: A new, alternative (optional) movement response mode for Geralt. A player stash for storing items, available in various locations throughout the game. Stash locations are marked on the player's map. Crafting and alchemy components no longer add to the overall inventory weight. Books are now placed in a dedicat

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Update 2.3 - Optimisation and fixes!

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - July 01, 2015

GamerDating goes mobile with full optimisation in version 2.3. We are pleased to announce GamerDating version 2.3 which brings full mobile optimisation on both Android and IOS. We’ve resolved those annoying bugs with the cache for both Firefox and Chrome making the site faster and more reliable, as well as improved the UX in certain places. This patch has many improvements including: Game Library has improved system of searching, s

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Total War: Warhammer Information

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 30, 2015

Total War: Warhammer is coming, and the hype is growing. I personally (Alex) cannot wait for the release and I wait with hope, and fear I will be disappointed. Yet here I am watching videos, reading interviews and getting even more hyped. If you've yet to see the scripted battle of Total War: Warhammer check out the cinematic announcement trailer over on the Total War Youtube Channel which introduces the armies available.  I've

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Guild Wars 2 Review

Posted By: Joe "Xirta" - June 29, 2015

Guild Wars 2 is an immersive, fantasy-based MMORPG which allows the player to progress in their own story-based solo play in a persistent world whilst also allowing the addition of missions and events that can be played solo or with others (called “instances”). The story of Guild Wars 2 revolves around dragons, which are bad, corrupted beings that like to raise undead and corrupt the land. These dragons threaten the world of Tyria,

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XCom 2 Gameplay Trailer

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 26, 2015

Firaxis Games brought a demo of XCOM 2 to E3 and we saw a quick overview of the video with commentary. Now they have released the short gameplay video.  The single mission comes across as a great interactive cinematic where the story picks up from 10 years after the time humanity surrendered to the alien invasion. With full interaction of the previous Xcom games combined with more cutscenes and an ever evolving narrative it

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Drink Water, RedBull and get DLC

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 25, 2015

Recently RedBull and Destiny paired up in a marketing move which sent ripples across the web. In a move seen as a joke, the dark times and a good idea has set off varying responses and some are just brilliant. Destiny is a PS4 Exclusive FPSMMO and RedBull are offering cans which you can buy, get codes and redeem your in game products. RedBull is offering a "Focused Light" a one-time consumable Bonus XP buff which increases all

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Terraria 1.3 Official Trailer

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 24, 2015

Terraria is only a week away, and even though the development team did not have time to make a video, the community yet again stepped up and worked with the team to create the next official trailer. Terraria is a shining success in the sea of early access crowd funded games which can show that developers can succeed. With each patch comes new features, new improved functionality and at times feels like an entirely new improved game. Check o

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Albion Online New Trailer and Summer Alpha

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 23, 2015

The big Summer Alpha will finally start on the 29th June. The world of Albion will open its ports for both seasoned and first-time settlers to populate it and experience the vast amount of new features and improvements implemented since the last Winter Alpha in January/February. You can our experience when Pyran went an experienced the game fulltime in our early experiences. Monday, the 29th of June Albion Online is a Free-to-Play

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Call of Duty Black Ops III E3 Co-operative gameplay

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 22, 2015

Call of Duty: Black Ops 3 cooperative campaign has been shared online, the cooperative tutorial seen at the E3 Sony Playstation booth is now available for a gander. Call of Duty: Black Ops 3 seems to touch more into the dark side of the future with technology lending a serious hand to the full on combat. What is cool is the game seems to be designed for four-player online co-op or solo play.  Players will encounter epic cin

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E3 Thursday Recap and End!

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 19, 2015

This is the last recap of E3 and for more indepth E3 news check out the E3 Expo site. E3 has been an interesting array of announcements, rehashes, promises and full fledged marketing. However amongst all the announcements we've had some great news. Destiny's The Taken King expansion with a continued story. Interesting talk with GameSpot and the creator of the Oculus about the future of VR. To take some of the pret

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E3 Wednesday Recap

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 18, 2015

E3 brought us some interesting trailers, announcements, and confirmations about games yesterday, the features and DLC have continued to take E3 as a strong exciting year. We saw more information on Horizon: Zero Dawn, an APRG featuring a female protagonist. An AWESOME trailer for Kingdom Come: Deliverance something which you can tell is something I'm interested in personally! (Alex) A very nice gameplay demo of Metal Gear Solid

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E3 Tuesday Recap

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 17, 2015

E3 Officially kicked off today and released a torrent of great news from Nintendo, Square Enix and some cool bits of news about Star Wars Battlefront. Many news sites are now sharing their hands on experience with multiple games as the show floors have opened up. GameSpot has been reporting and these are few of the top bits of news: The Wii U Star Fox was officially named as Star Fox Zero, Super Mario Maker is coming in

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E3 Monday Recap

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 16, 2015

E3 continued on Monday, and after following the slam dunk of Bethesda it was a hard gig to headline. Collecting the information from E3 again we list the top news here: The next Gear of War was confirmed. Sony confirmed The Last Guardian will release next year. Call of Duty will have DLC debut on PlayStation. The next Mass Effect has a name and it's Andromeda. Dark Souls 3 will be the last one in the ser

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E3 Kick off and Sunday Recap

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 15, 2015

E3 kicked off yesterday and continues over the next few days to bring us new releases, announcements and games. Straight from E3's own mouth we have gathered the list of the top announcements, reveals and hot news straight from E3's Sunday. Dishonored 2 was officially revealed and it looks awesome, especially with the protagonist. Doom showed off plenty of gameplay. Fallout 4 announced to be coming a lot sooner than

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Cities:Skylines Review

Posted By: Joe "Xirta" - June 11, 2015

Cities:Skylines is a game that is advertised as “A modern take on the classic city simulation”, and at first seems to be just that. After playing it, however, I would describe it more as an advanced and complex modern take on the classic city simulation, as it is so much more than a simple current-day version of this style of game. The roads, the services, the transportation... all these things make this game stand out from the others

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Mirrors Edge: Catalyst to be at E3

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 10, 2015

Over the last few weeks we've had further hints and teasers from the Mirrors Edge team, but now they've announced they will be giving us another teaser at E3. Two years ago we revealed that we were making a new Mirror’s Edge™. Last year, we gave you a behind the scenes look into some of the early progress we had made. And though we haven't said much else in all that time, we have been listenin

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Amazon is making a PC Game

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 09, 2015

Amazon Game Studios posted on Gamasutra advertising and looking for applicants who use Twitch, AWS and offer technical innovation to radically evolve gameplay. The team is made of former Portal, World of Warcraft and BioShock creators, and we’re building a team of top talent for an ambitious new PC game project using the latest technology. Our team in Seattle has worked on a lot of other great titles like Half Life 2, Left for Dead, Do

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Goliath - Mech survival game

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 08, 2015

Goliath is an upcoming survival/action game featuring massive constructs that you develop, build and hop in to combat the dangers of the world, focused on solo and co-operative play. In an exclusive reveal, gameinformer share the premise of this new survival game.  The concept is simple – after an unfortunate jaunt through a mysterious rift, you’re stranded in an unknown world. You have to survive against hordes of s

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Don't Starve Together, free multi-player update

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - June 04, 2015

Don't Starve, has announced their latest update, a multiplayer update, free to all those currently supporting; Don't Starve Together! If you didn't own it previous, you will not have been given the free update, yet the game is still in early access. Since the Early Access launch in December, new "DLC" and patches adding new creatures, new games modes, and added significant improvements to modding with general updates

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Unveiling of the Avatar

Posted By: Silja - June 14, 2018

How much can you and can’t you hide behind your avatar?

A few years ago, I walked into the room with my partner playing a video game (I think it was Tomb Raider actually now I come to think about it). The noise was deafening: grenades, machine-gun staccato, the groaning of the dying enemy. You know - fun. In the midst of all that glorious violence, a buff, yet slim female soldier was chopping and shooting her way in a dance of death through the screen of the game. My man was playing a female.

My first thought was “Yay, my guy is the ultimate feminist.” I mean, she was properly clothed and kicking serious ass. My second thought was “Is there such a thing as virtual cross-dressing?” and my last thought was “The female warrior totally represented my man… How interesting.” Even though she was clearly a woman, I could recognize parts of him in the avatar.

My guy educated me that playing a female is standard – everyone has a few characters they enjoy playing most, and not all of them represent the same gender. What’s the fun in a virtual world if you’re stuck being you all the time?

Interestingly enough, studies of avatars show that they actually do adequately represent their creators’ personality, even if the avatar isn’t human at all. This research shows that a person’s personality – as captured by The Big Five Personality Test – guides the design choices made by the player. The 5 personality traits act like a sliding scale.  You can score high or low on any of the 5 personality traits, each of them having their pro’s and con’s:

Openness

Being open to new experiences, art, sensitivity to beauty and having a vivid imagination.

Agreeableness

Reflecting the individual’s differences in concern with cooperation and social harmony.

Neuroticism

Neuroticism refers to the tendency to experience negative feelings.

Conscientiousness

Conscientiousness concerns the way in which we control, regulate, and direct our impulses.

Extraversion

Extraversion is marked by pronounced engagement with the external world.

The personality traits, as captured by the Big 5 Test, are represented in eyes, haircuts and colours, clothing choices of an avatar and much more. The participants in the study could point out who was extraverted and agreeable, for example, without ever meeting the creator of the avatar.

I guess it’s good that people can present parts of their nature through their avatar and still be enjoy the anonymity of a game with millions of players. Even while reading most books, you project parts of your personality on the main characters and that’s what makes the story even more compelling. So, when you meet an avatar in the game, you can look out for tell-tale signs of who that person could really be - and chances are you are right.

Pro-tip: if you’re looking to make friends, there are certain things you can look out for to make your avatar more approachable: a smiling avatar will make people want to be friends and other traits, like an oval face, brown hair or a sweater, were also more likely to make other players want to be friends than black, short hair (not cool: I have near black hair…). Apparently black hair, short hair, a hat and sunglasses are all no-nos.


And the good news is: if you want to dissolve into the anonymity of the multi-player world without sharing glimpses of your personality – just look out for what kind of an avatar look you would choose first – and then choose the opposite!

Happy hunting,

Silja

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